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Time for some new spanking pictures! We did this shoot a month ago, but things have been so busy that I’ve just now finished editing the video. I can just see our next shoot, “Spanked for not blogging enough!”, or not…

The brakes on our car started squeaking, but I thought they could wait. Within just a few short weeks they started grinding- then the car spent three days in the shop! The repair bill was much larger than it would have been if I’d just have taken it it when Twilight first suggested. So, it was time for a harsh punishment!

First she spanked my inner thighs, which really stings, with the large riding crop. Its a nice crop, from Sparticus, though we don’t use it very often. She then bent me forward and tore into my rear with it. Since we don’t use it much, I forget how vicious it can be, quickly my butt was marked with red splotches which show up really well in the picture. She even whipped the back of my calves with that evil little thing.

Since this was not to be a ‘fun’ spanking, she moved on- to the TIRE PADDLE. This is another implement which we don’t use often, its heavy and severe. A neat thing, though, is that it can actually leave tread marks on one’s bottom! Its a little hard to see here since my behind is pretty red already.

For the final act, Twilight disciplined me with the cane. Ordering me over the arm of a large leather chair, she proceeded to thash my behind. At the end she gave me 12 really hard strokes, plus another for not answering her quickly enough! Following that she led me into the corner so I might reflect upon how I’d found myself in the situation.

Download the full punishment video, 16 minutes 51 seconds, available now in a variety of formats.

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In a recent post I blogged pictures from my Dining Table Punishment Spanking and now we have a sample spanking video clip edited for everyone’s enjoyment. I still love the way that the lighting turned out in this movie. It was a real luxury to have rented such a nice (and large!) place for the shoot, it gave me a lot of flexibility in setting up lights and camera.

In this video Twilight came home expecting me to be ready for the play she had anticipated seeing for a week. And I, bad boy that I was, completely forgot and made different plans. I ruined her afternoon, and she spanked my naughty bare behind with her hand, then a nice stingy leather tawse. Spankings hurt, and naturally I tried to cover my burning bottom. Her cure for that- tawse my hands too! Which was, of course, largely how tawses were used in schools of old.

After strapping me with her tawse, she spanked me with the old hickory fraternity paddle. This is a heavy paddle, hard to swing and hard hitting, making almost a splashing sort of thwack as I am paddled. After my spanking I did get my way and we did go gallery hopping. And, Twilight DID turn on the heated car seat to keep my poor bum nice and hot!

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One of the interesting things about modeling in these videos is that we will rent a location for just a day or two. That means we have to shoot several scenes over just one or two days. And, of course, after a hard caning or even a good strapping, I will have bottom marks from a spanking for several days. So, we have to shoot lighter and work out way up, so that the previous shoots marks don’t ruin the scenario. Besides, I haven’t always been such a bad boy that I really need a caning

In this video, I was off to the hot tub for a good soak. But, Twilight decided it was time I had a maintenance spanking. That was really pretty unfair, because she spanked me hard enough my bottom was plenty warm afterwards without a hottub. First she spanked me with her hand, over the knee, on my swimsuit. But that’s never enough, not even for a light maintenance spanking. So off came my trunks, and back over her knee. On the bare her hand started to sting more as she berated me for all the little things I’d done wrong over the past week, like getting cheeky with a department store returns “lady”. Twilight then decided that I needed more than just her hand, so she went for a belt- my own belt! She strapped me with it quick and hard until my bottom was hot and stingy. Then, she sent me off to the hottub to soak with my hot bottom.

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Editing one of our recent video shoots I had to stop and pull some stills for this spanking blog. The images were too beautiful to wait until movie was finished. Actually, another movie clip was supposed to come before these, but I was so shocked at how well the lighting and cinematography worked in parts that I had to share these stills now.

When we shoot a video, obviously, there are lights, a basic plot, camera angles and planning involved. We like to pull snippets of fact from our real lives, twisting them around to create a fantasy that is at once both fun and poignant. A surprising amount of truth ends up in our videos, which are on the face fictional.

For this video the premise was that I forgot Twilight telling me about plans to see “The Vagina Monologues”, so when she came in, already running late, I was not even dressed to go out. Indeed, I so blanked out our early morning conversation that I planned to gallery hopping. Twilight, already hurt by my lackadaisical attitude towards an event she had anticipated for the past week, became truly upset when I referred to her missed show as “a bunch of hairy lesbians talking about their pussies”.

It was time for a spanking, and a good one at that. Shortly, I found myself upon the dining table receiving the just reward for my flippancy and cheek. The tawse stung, and I couldn’t help trying to cover and protect my fiery bottom from its painful kiss. So, Twilight made me kneel and tawsed my hands before spanking me some more. After the tawsing was over came the paddle. This is an antique hickory fraternity paddle, heavy, and it packs quite a wallop during a spanking. After working out her frustrations on my derrière, she spanked me just a little more with her hand as a cool down. Then back on with my clothes and off to the art galleries we went for an enjoyable afternoon. My bottom was still warm later while we stared intently into the heat radiating off a crucible pouring bronze at the gallery’s forge.

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I just finished editing the figging video for our blog. There were some minor problems but they are sorted out. We have been spending a lot time shooting video for our upcoming members site, the project is really exciting and it looks like we’ll have it up early this summer! We will have plenty of sample pictures and video clips from those spankings on the blog too.

This was the harshest video we have done, and probably ever will. My bottom marks from being trashed with a wire coat hanger were brutal, and took three weeks to completely fade. It hurt like hell at the time, of course, but in that headspace I didn’t realize the damage being done to my poor bottom. I do mark sometimes from a good spanking, but never before like this. Usually, for me, a figging is more painful that the cane, but the wire coat hanger was a lot worse than the fig. I actually cried a bit in the video and I’ve kept that bit in for the sample version on my blog. Enjoy!

The full 13 minute video is available for download in our F/m spanking clip store. We now offer Hi Definition, standard widescreen, and reduced bandwidth versions of our new full length spanking videos.

We have been very busy shooting more spanking videos. Aside from Messy Kitchen Figging and Thrashing, which is now available for download in our spanking clip store, we have four more in editing. I’ll have some sample video of the figging up in the next couple of days. I’ve been having a bit of trouble editing the High Definition video formats, but seem to have it sorted out now.

My bottom is once again good and red tonight as we just finished a shoot.This was our first video with another person! In it, Kelli tells Twilight how she’s learned her husband is seeing an escort, and that I am covering for him. They both give me the fifth degree and spank the truth out of me, with Twilight teaching Kelli how to give a spanking so that she can keep her straying man in line. I made a valiant attempt at keeping my friend’s secrets, but eventually the truth came out, leaving me with a sore and punished backside.

Both Kelli and her hubby are kinky, which was strange to learn since they have been good friends of ours for a couple of years. Normally, however, she is on the receiving end so she was eager to learn how to give a good spanking. We hope to shoot a follow-up video soon.

I’ve read longingly as a few other spanking bloggers mention the end of Winter, but here in the high desert (or alpine valley which it is also) Spring has come all too late. We just had what I hope is our last snow storm, its been an uncommonly harsh Winter, and its sunny and warm and distinctly no longer Winter. Yippie!

We often go on hikes, and of course on a goodly portion of those hikes your’s truly gets a switching. Going through my hard drive I found this picture from one of those hikes two summers ago in the nearby mountains. Wow! When that picture was taken I had no idea that we’d be making spanking videos, and even now starting a small membership site.

We just got back from a long and grueling weekend of shoots. This after a few days of car problems. I really did fuck up the brakes, which was the subject of one of my 3 good hard spankings for the shoots. I also got a couple quick light spankings when we ran around the city for an occasional break. We took some photos for Twilight’s phone gig, and shot a little other fetish content for a webmaster I met on a forum I am on. That shoot was odd, but fun I suppose, and it helped to cover the location and travel expenses even if it wasn’t really our thing. The clip store is helping too but we aren’t quite breaking even yet, and that is before equipment costs. But we are getting closer to starting up the paysite, and I am really psyched about that.

I am also proud of how our videos are coming along. I studied photography years ago in college, but this project is the first real video project either of us have done. Already, I feel we are producing very good work and without the deficiencies I believe plague most F/m spanking porn. We are hoping to have a model call soon, to get an occasional shoot for the site with a fresh face. Yes, all talent will show faces, and actually all talent will be paid too… which is fair but NOT standard as Prefectdt and Pandora Blake have both recently blogged.