Jan 14
About
Hello, and thank you for reading my blog. This is Thebes and I am a male spanko. I’ve been into spanking for as long as I can remember, and have been online since before gopher was more popular than the web. During the years I’ve been on various forums, on and off, and I was a charter signature for the creation of soc.sexuality.spanking.
For many years now I’ve been married to Twilight, and there are many amusing stories about that, but now is not the time.
Undoubtedly you clicked the about page to learn more about my blog. Yes, I am a real live man and I am spanked in real life. I am somewhat switchable, perhaps even more so than Twilight, who gets her’s only a few times a year. We are a kinky couple who work in the sex industry. She does telephone domination and I do web design and promotion, though I’ve been on hiatus from that for a while. We work at home and live in the SouthWest United States.
All of the spankings here are real. I don’t believe in makeup, and I think faking it in photoshop is even lamer than faking being a spanko. Shooting content, however, takes setting up camera angles and does not lend itself well to real-life discipline. One should therefor presume that most of the scenarios in my photos and videos are embellishments of real life. I read recently that all sex work is about bridging the gap between fantasy and reality, I hope in this blog to make some hot spanking porn which is based loosely enough upon reality that the fantasy remains unbroken.
February 19th, 2008 at 2:34 pm
Enjoyed this web site and plan to return many more time,The site is well done and easy to get around,For a SPANKO SPANKER LIKE ME………Great Site
March 19th, 2008 at 7:16 pm
Hello,
I stumbled across your blog and I am very impressed.
I spank my husband and it’s hard to find good F/M spanking
sites that aren’t beating the guy to a pulp. We also live
in the Southwest…glad to find others that are like us
out here! Loved the video with the electrical cord. Keep
up the good work.
Hisboss
April 20th, 2008 at 10:08 am
Just curious, how were you so lucky to meet your wife, and how did you two broach the subject of spanking. How did the two of you start out?
April 21st, 2008 at 8:09 pm
Hello. Love your site. Love that picture of your switched ass in the forest.
Also enjoyed your session on “figging”. Not a popular subject on the internet, even though it is a practice. Thanks for showing that.
April 23rd, 2008 at 3:11 pm
Cliff, Hisboss: I am very glad that you like my site, I put a lot of effort into it and am glad to find people enjoy it.
Neeros: I met my wife on my birthday, a gift from the goddess I like to say. We met at a small party after the Rocky Horror Picture Show, I did cast and crew on it and parties were afterwards at my apartment. We spanked each other that first night during a Purity Test party, which in the right contexts can be a great way to break the ice and put out feelers for who might be kinky!
p: Yes, I am actually surprised how few videos and photos feature it. I do have to admit it was a bit of a push for me to have something inserted into my rear on video though. I hope the end product is worth that embarrasment
May 20th, 2008 at 6:17 am
Hi
may name is reza.I am from Turky.
The first please accept my appologist for this order.
I would like download one full free movie (F/M spank)
Could you help me?
your prompt reply will be appreciated.
regards
reza
May 22nd, 2008 at 7:18 pm
Reza- I hope I am understanding what you are asking. If you have a customer service request for a clip you have purchased, please email me and I will help fix any problem you might have had.
I believe you are just asking me to give you a free full video? I already provide quite a lot of free video on my site, using hundreds of gigabytes of bandwidth a month and, as far as I know, offering the best free sample F/m spanking videos available through any legitimate website.
It would, in some ways, be great if things in society were all free. I would love a new free D-SLR, as mine is now two years old. I could really use some free video lights. Perhaps, when I rent a location to shoot my video, the renter could let me stay and shoot for free. But, none of these things are likely to ever happen.
Right now, I am NOT making a profit filming our spanking movies. I am still paying for thousands of dollars in equipment. When I hire models I pay them. I pay for locations to shoot at and for gasoline to drive to them. If I didn’t charge for my full length movies I would have to stop producing them as I would soon be broke. I do hope that you understand this.
June 3rd, 2008 at 10:26 pm
Hi, I love your site. I am a mistress and a spanker. I have several slaves and naughty boys that I spank. I am also in a spanko relationship. My slave boyfriend loves to be spanked. I have tried to find sites that protrade real life f/m couples or f/m spankos but it is very hard to find. I live in the Virginia. Again I enjoy your site. If you are ever in the area let me know I may have an outdoor site that would be perfect for a video. Mistress Tina
July 4th, 2008 at 4:41 pm
My husband and I just discovered your site and read through the blog so far. Very nice work! As f/m spanking enthusiasts we’ll be purchasing some clips, to help offset what must be significant costs. I wondered, did you make the tire paddle yourselves? My husband is now inspired to create one for me. Many thanks!
July 23rd, 2008 at 1:42 pm
.new to this. like your site. i think your handsom and i just Love older men. Its reallllly hard for me to find
people my age that are into this. I just turned 21 and i can’t seem to find the right guy :/ i love to be the sub
any ideas
October 27th, 2008 at 7:43 am
Hi
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November 13th, 2008 at 1:10 pm
This is the best f/m site on the web. The women seem to really enjoy giving these punishments which makes
them so sexy. They also are great at devising punishments. Two buns up. Now only if I could find a women like
these.
January 10th, 2009 at 3:18 pm
Love seeing Thebe’s chubby bum getting a good working over by Twilight. Excellent site.
March 29th, 2009 at 8:53 am
A really nice page, it’s always great to see relationships like these..:-) - I am a spanko since years and just a few months ago I met a woman who is very much into it - as a ‘giver’ and ‘taker’ - and we both enjoy everything as much as you do - keep it up, and may you always get what you deserve! *g*
August 7th, 2009 at 6:40 am
Wow, I love your blog. Thanks for the time,effort and all that it takes for your sharing the best F/M material I’ve seen yet.
I am 43 yoa spankee and have researched and surfed alot over the years and the realism portrayed and chemistry you two have is spectacular.
Twilight is a born pro it seems. I especially love the quiet demeanor, even tempered “get sown to business” attitude, no over top
yelling and such. My compiment to the both of you.
August 7th, 2009 at 6:43 am
Now only if I could type, sorry for the typo’s. I meant to say my compliments to the both of you, proofreading is something I should
attend to. Keith
August 23rd, 2010 at 3:37 pm
January 15,2008
Dancing Session Three
Six weeks ago I informed Jim that he was going to receive 1000 lashes with my razor strap for breaking the limit on a single credit card purchase. He had done this 3 years in a row for 3 different golf club drivers. I broke the lashes down to 13 sessions with the strap. The first session was in the woods. The second was at home. We had the hottest sex afterwards. I broke my own rule. No sex for him after a punishment spanking. Today that is not going to happen. As a reminder of why he is getting this blistering, I had him bent over holding the newest $450.00 plus golf driver in his mouth. He could drop it after each lash but it must be back in place for the next lash. I delivered 60 very hard lashes deliberately slow paced , so I could watch him dance , and jump from foot to foot, repeatedly trying to endure the pain by blowing, and blowing like a woman in labor . This time I said no restrictions after each lash. That meant he can run and jump and squeal as long as he was in position within 10 seconds .With no sex afterwards he will hate this session. After each lash he screamed, dropped the golf club and ran and hopped down the hallway. All the while, blowing and ooooing and whewing and howling. Tears were rolling down to his chin. This was after every lash. I was chuckling because he must have run the length of 2 miles trying futilely to out run the pain. He reminded me of the Road Runner . I tried to place each lash in a particular area experimenting to see how high I could make him jump. I gave him 6 in a row to his thighs. The sixth of which brought him to his knees howling in pain and crying like a baby. I warned him . “Ten seconds“ he quickly moved in position for the next stroke which came instantly. “ That last one didn’t count .You forgot the Golf Club”. He put the club back in his mouth and I aimed at the same place, his thighs. Again he dropped to his knees. His tears were creating a tiny puddle on our parquet floor . I very slowly and methodically applied the last dozen having him count aloud each one. Imitating Gene Kelly, I repeatedly sang “Godda Dance, Godda Dance” while he jumped in the air with many different gyrations and yelps. After the last one, he fell down into a fetal ball and whimpered uncontrollably. There were welts all over his backside and his thighs. This type of punishment really changes his behavior . The play spanking leading to sex just doesn’t work , He repeats offenses because, 1) he loves to be spanked, and 2) He loves sex. I then sat on the chair and while he was still sobbing I allowed him to sit on my lap for a little nurturing. Using a small towel I wiped his sweat, and tears from his face. With the strap still in my hand, I wrapped my arms around his neck and planted a wet kiss on his lips making sure my marvelous breasts were pressed against his hairy chest. I kissed him again and Icouldn’t believe it. He was in terrific pain and still his”Niner from North Caroliner” stood rigidly at attention. I chuckled and said: “Not tonight darling “ I want him to get used to the idea that a punishment spanking is never rewarded with sex! It’s the only way to improve his behavior While he is sobbing on my lap, I informed him that I want a term paper from him. Like when we were in college.
It must be 12 single spaced pages titled” Why it is prudent and essential in a successful marriage to communicate honestly with one’s partner in life.” I wanted a complete bibliography, foot notes etc, etc. It will take 3 weeks for his bottom to heal and that’s when he can turn it in. How severe the 4th dance session will be , will be determined by the grade I give to his term paper. Hopefully he’ll learn something in his research about being truthful in all his relationships. I had him kneel the corner with his welted ashen ruby red bottom. The razor strop has become my favorite implement. Because it is easier to snap my wrist, with my arm fully extended, therefore really getting his attention with each swing. I aim for the farthest cheek so the stripes wrap around on the side of his butt and thighs. It’s a good thing we had this room sound proofed or his screams would bring the police knocking on our door. Plus I can double the punishment and not feel as exhausted after each session as I do with a paddle or hair brush . I could easily have given him another 60 strokes , as I have on a few occasions when I had drunken too much wine, without even breaking a sweat. He knelt in the corner for one hour. While I monitored & scolded him and changed the color of my fingernails to match the color of my new outfit. All the while I was humming the tune “Godda Dance Godda Dance” I wore that outfit to dinner later that same day. I felt beautifully quaffed and totally relaxed and in a very good mood. I always do after a session. He was constantly fidgeting in his chair throughout the whole meal. I needn’t explain why, do I?
January 15,2008
Dancing Session Three
Six weeks ago I informed Jim that he was going to receive 1000 lashes with my razor strap for breaking the limit on a single credit card purchase. He had done this 3 years in a row for 3 different golf club drivers. I broke the lashes down to 13 sessions with the strap. The first session was in the woods. The second was at home. We had the hottest sex afterwards. I broke my own rule. No sex for him after a punishment spanking. Today that is not going to happen. As a reminder of why he is getting this blistering, I had him bent over holding the newest $450.00 plus golf driver in his mouth. He could drop it after each lash but it must be back in place for the next lash. I delivered 60 very hard lashes deliberately slow paced , so I could watch him dance , and jump from foot to foot, repeatedly trying to endure the pain by blowing, and blowing like a woman in labor . This time I said no restrictions after each lash. That meant he can run and jump and squeal as long as he was in position within 10 seconds .With no sex afterwards he will hate this session. After each lash he screamed, dropped the golf club and ran and hopped down the hallway. All the while, blowing and ooooing and whewing and howling. Tears were rolling down to his chin. This was after every lash. I was chuckling because he must have run the length of 2 miles trying futilely to out run the pain. He reminded me of the Road Runner . I tried to place each lash in a particular area experimenting to see how high I could make him jump. I gave him 6 in a row to his thighs. The sixth of which brought him to his knees howling in pain and crying like a baby. I warned him . “Ten seconds“ he quickly moved in position for the next stroke which came instantly. “ That last one didn’t count .You forgot the Golf Club”. He put the club back in his mouth and I aimed at the same place, his thighs. Again he dropped to his knees. His tears were creating a tiny puddle on our parquet floor . I very slowly and methodically applied the last dozen having him count aloud each one. Imitating Gene Kelly, I repeatedly sang “Godda Dance, Godda Dance” while he jumped in the air with many different gyrations and yelps. After the last one, he fell down into a fetal ball and whimpered uncontrollably. There were welts all over his backside and his thighs. This type of punishment really changes his behavior . The play spanking leading to sex just doesn’t work , He repeats offenses because, 1) he loves to be spanked, and 2) He loves sex. I then sat on the chair and while he was still sobbing I allowed him to sit on my lap for a little nurturing. Using a small towel I wiped his sweat, and tears from his face. With the strap still in my hand, I wrapped my arms around his neck and planted a wet kiss on his lips making sure my marvelous breasts were pressed against his hairy chest. I kissed him again and Icouldn’t believe it. He was in terrific pain and still his”Niner from North Caroliner” stood rigidly at attention. I chuckled and said: “Not tonight darling “ I want him to get used to the idea that a punishment spanking is never rewarded with sex! It’s the only way to improve his behavior While he is sobbing on my lap, I informed him that I want a term paper from him. Like when we were in college.
It must be 12 single spaced pages titled” Why it is prudent and essential in a successful marriage to communicate honestly with one’s partner in life.” I wanted a complete bibliography, foot notes etc, etc. It will take 3 weeks for his bottom to heal and that’s when he can turn it in. How severe the 4th dance session will be , will be determined by the grade I give to his term paper. Hopefully he’ll learn something in his research about being truthful in all his relationships. I had him kneel the corner with his welted ashen ruby red bottom. The razor strop has become my favorite implement. Because it is easier to snap my wrist, with my arm fully extended, therefore really getting his attention with each swing. I aim for the farthest cheek so the stripes wrap around on the side of his butt and thighs. It’s a good thing we had this room sound proofed or his screams would bring the police knocking on our door. Plus I can double the punishment and not feel as exhausted after each session as I do with a paddle or hair brush . I could easily have given him another 60 strokes , as I have on a few occasions when I had drunken too much wine, without even breaking a sweat. He knelt in the corner for one hour. While I monitored & scolded him and changed the color of my fingernails to match the color of my new outfit. All the while I was humming the tune “Godda Dance Godda Dance” I wore that outfit to dinner later that same day. I felt beautifully quaffed and totally relaxed and in a very good mood. I always do after a session. He was constantly fidgeting in his chair throughout the whole meal. I needn’t explain why, do I?
January 15,2008
Dancing Session Three
Six weeks ago I informed Jim that he was going to receive 1000 lashes with my razor strap for breaking the limit on a single credit card purchase. He had done this 3 years in a row for 3 different golf club drivers. I broke the lashes down to 13 sessions with the strap. The first session was in the woods. The second was at home. We had the hottest sex afterwards. I broke my own rule. No sex for him after a punishment spanking. Today that is not going to happen. As a reminder of why he is getting this blistering, I had him bent over holding the newest $450.00 plus golf driver in his mouth. He could drop it after each lash but it must be back in place for the next lash. I delivered 60 very hard lashes deliberately slow paced , so I could watch him dance , and jump from foot to foot, repeatedly trying to endure the pain by blowing, and blowing like a woman in labor . This time I said no restrictions after each lash. That meant he can run and jump and squeal as long as he was in position within 10 seconds .With no sex afterwards he will hate this session. After each lash he screamed, dropped the golf club and ran and hopped down the hallway. All the while, blowing and ooooing and whewing and howling. Tears were rolling down to his chin. This was after every lash. I was chuckling because he must have run the length of 2 miles trying futilely to out run the pain. He reminded me of the Road Runner . I tried to place each lash in a particular area experimenting to see how high I could make him jump. I gave him 6 in a row to his thighs. The sixth of which brought him to his knees howling in pain and crying like a baby. I warned him . “Ten seconds“ he quickly moved in position for the next stroke which came instantly. “ That last one didn’t count .You forgot the Golf Club”. He put the club back in his mouth and I aimed at the same place, his thighs. Again he dropped to his knees. His tears were creating a tiny puddle on our parquet floor . I very slowly and methodically applied the last dozen having him count aloud each one. Imitating Gene Kelly, I repeatedly sang “Godda Dance, Godda Dance” while he jumped in the air with many different gyrations and yelps. After the last one, he fell down into a fetal ball and whimpered uncontrollably. There were welts all over his backside and his thighs. This type of punishment really changes his behavior . The play spanking leading to sex just doesn’t work , He repeats offenses because, 1) he loves to be spanked, and 2) He loves sex. I then sat on the chair and while he was still sobbing I allowed him to sit on my lap for a little nurturing. Using a small towel I wiped his sweat, and tears from his face. With the strap still in my hand, I wrapped my arms around his neck and planted a wet kiss on his lips making sure my marvelous breasts were pressed against his hairy chest. I kissed him again and Icouldn’t believe it. He was in terrific pain and still his”Niner from North Caroliner” stood rigidly at attention. I chuckled and said: “Not tonight darling “ I want him to get used to the idea that a punishment spanking is never rewarded with sex! It’s the only way to improve his behavior While he is sobbing on my lap, I informed him that I want a term paper from him. Like when we were in college.
It must be 12 single spaced pages titled” Why it is prudent and essential in a successful marriage to communicate honestly with one’s partner in life.” I wanted a complete bibliography, foot notes etc, etc. It will take 3 weeks for his bottom to heal and that’s when he can turn it in. How severe the 4th dance session will be , will be determined by the grade I give to his term paper. Hopefully he’ll learn something in his research about being truthful in all his relationships. I had him kneel the corner with his welted ashen ruby red bottom. The razor strop has become my favorite implement. Because it is easier to snap my wrist, with my arm fully extended, therefore really getting his attention with each swing. I aim for the farthest cheek so the stripes wrap around on the side of his butt and thighs. It’s a good thing we had this room sound proofed or his screams would bring the police knocking on our door. Plus I can double the punishment and not feel as exhausted after each session as I do with a paddle or hair brush . I could easily have given him another 60 strokes , as I have on a few occasions when I had drunken too much wine, without even breaking a sweat. He knelt in the corner for one hour. While I monitored & scolded him and changed the color of my fingernails to match the color of my new outfit. All the while I was humming the tune “Godda Dance Godda Dance” I wore that outfit to dinner later that same day. I felt beautifully quaffed and totally relaxed and in a very good mood. I always do after a session. He was constantly fidgeting in his chair throughout the whole meal. I needn’t explain why, do I?
January 15,2008
Dancing Session Three
Six weeks ago I informed Jim that he was going to receive 1000 lashes with my razor strap for breaking the limit on a single credit card purchase. He had done this 3 years in a row for 3 different golf club drivers. I broke the lashes down to 13 sessions with the strap. The first session was in the woods. The second was at home. We had the hottest sex afterwards. I broke my own rule. No sex for him after a punishment spanking. Today that is not going to happen. As a reminder of why he is getting this blistering, I had him bent over holding the newest $450.00 plus golf driver in his mouth. He could drop it after each lash but it must be back in place for the next lash. I delivered 60 very hard lashes deliberately slow paced , so I could watch him dance , and jump from foot to foot, repeatedly trying to endure the pain by blowing, and blowing like a woman in labor . This time I said no restrictions after each lash. That meant he can run and jump and squeal as long as he was in position within 10 seconds .With no sex afterwards he will hate this session. After each lash he screamed, dropped the golf club and ran and hopped down the hallway. All the while, blowing and ooooing and whewing and howling. Tears were rolling down to his chin. This was after every lash. I was chuckling because he must have run the length of 2 miles trying futilely to out run the pain. He reminded me of the Road Runner . I tried to place each lash in a particular area experimenting to see how high I could make him jump. I gave him 6 in a row to his thighs. The sixth of which brought him to his knees howling in pain and crying like a baby. I warned him . “Ten seconds“ he quickly moved in position for the next stroke which came instantly. “ That last one didn’t count .You forgot the Golf Club”. He put the club back in his mouth and I aimed at the same place, his thighs. Again he dropped to his knees. His tears were creating a tiny puddle on our parquet floor . I very slowly and methodically applied the last dozen having him count aloud each one. Imitating Gene Kelly, I repeatedly sang “Godda Dance, Godda Dance” while he jumped in the air with many different gyrations and yelps. After the last one, he fell down into a fetal ball and whimpered uncontrollably. There were welts all over his backside and his thighs. This type of punishment really changes his behavior . The play spanking leading to sex just doesn’t work , He repeats offenses because, 1) he loves to be spanked, and 2) He loves sex. I then sat on the chair and while he was still sobbing I allowed him to sit on my lap for a little nurturing. Using a small towel I wiped his sweat, and tears from his face. With the strap still in my hand, I wrapped my arms around his neck and planted a wet kiss on his lips making sure my marvelous breasts were pressed against his hairy chest. I kissed him again and Icouldn’t believe it. He was in terrific pain and still his”Niner from North Caroliner” stood rigidly at attention. I chuckled and said: “Not tonight darling “ I want him to get used to the idea that a punishment spanking is never rewarded with sex! It’s the only way to improve his behavior While he is sobbing on my lap, I informed him that I want a term paper from him. Like when we were in college.
It must be 12 single spaced pages titled” Why it is prudent and essential in a successful marriage to communicate honestly with one’s partner in life.” I wanted a complete bibliography, foot notes etc, etc. It will take 3 weeks for his bottom to heal and that’s when he can turn it in. How severe the 4th dance session will be , will be determined by the grade I give to his term paper. Hopefully he’ll learn something in his research about being truthful in all his relationships. I had him kneel the corner with his welted ashen ruby red bottom. The razor strop has become my favorite implement. Because it is easier to snap my wrist, with my arm fully extended, therefore really getting his attention with each swing. I aim for the farthest cheek so the stripes wrap around on the side of his butt and thighs. It’s a good thing we had this room sound proofed or his screams would bring the police knocking on our door. Plus I can double the punishment and not feel as exhausted after each session as I do with a paddle or hair brush . I could easily have given him another 60 strokes , as I have on a few occasions when I had drunken too much wine, without even breaking a sweat. He knelt in the corner for one hour. While I monitored & scolded him and changed the color of my fingernails to match the color of my new outfit. All the while I was humming the tune “Godda Dance Godda Dance” I wore that outfit to dinner later that same day. I felt beautifully quaffed and totally relaxed and in a very good mood. I always do after a session. He was constantly fidgeting in his chair throughout the whole meal. I needn’t explain why, do I?