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The Ache of Desire Unsatisfied
“J groaned in my ear, and I nearly pulled down his zipper then and there.”

Unexpected
“Tingles of electricity were set coursing up and down that side of my body.”

Part(y)ing shots
“I placed both my hands on the tiled wall in front of me, clammy and cold, holding myself up.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
The “Best way to make him felt hot”

Editor’s Choice
Who Is A Sex Worker?

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BDSM & Fetish
The administration of pain
Calm
Cock Blogging
Cuckold
Expect the unexpected
Happy hunting
I got quoted in Bitchy Jones!
A Lying Husband’s Spanking and Mouthsoaping
So Hard It Hurts
Vegas Squeeze Toy

Another fine Half Nekkid Thursday. Here I am, standing on a chair with my nose to the door, displaying my caned bottom, and naked from the waist down.

Yes! I met my deadline and our clips4sale store is indeed up before the end of the month. This is a good thing for my bottom, when Twilight gives a hard spanking… well, she once broke a wooden bathbrush over my blistered butt. It went live only a few hours ago and we have already made a sale!

Btw, if you do the math, you will realize that I was up until after 5 in the morning. I get in trouble for that sometimes and have some video stills to show what happens. In this quick little strapping video I get woken up after gaming until 4 something in the morning playing, as Twilight called it, Land of Lamecraft. A spanking always seems to sting more when I am half asleep, which I really was when we shot this despite two cups of coffee. The implement is a leather slapper from JT’s Stockroom, and it makes a lovely double slapping sound when used in a rapid and no nonsense manner. It is more sting than thud, and is a great warm-up. A good dose on its own makes for a quick and moderate session too.

I still need to edit this down to a bandwidth saving video to share for free, but in the mean time enjoy a few screen caps to celebrate our new store.

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When we bought the video camera we are using to shoot our spanking movies, we ran a quick test to see how it worked. The audio was a nightmare because the heater kicked on while we were filming it, but I’ve learned how to remove most the racket in editing. Here it is, a quick and simple caning video.

I plan to have this video, and others, available soon now for full size download my clips4sale store!

These original spanking pictures come from a shoot we just did, taking both stills and video. I am working on the video, actually I now have several clips to edit. I can’t believe the response to my previous spanking video! This shoot featured an interesting scenario, as I have just purchased a new laptop and spent quite a bit more than I originally asked Twilight for. Of course I would never lie about how much I spent, right? Well the premise of the shoot is that I did lie to her, and boy did I pay!

It starts out as my wife comes in with the receipt in her hand proving that I lied to her about how much the new laptop cost. Time to take my clothes off! Somehow my most severe spankings are usually completely naked, and so it was here. I was bent over the arm of the funky red sofa and she started giving me a strapping as a warm up. Before long Twilight had switched to the holey paddle and was punishing my naughty bum with gusto. This paddle has a particular sting, it is light weight and the smaller size and holes mean that it really flies through the air, landing with a quick and sharp SLAP!

After being soundly paddled, my bottom was red and stinging. But that was only the beginning of my punishment. My lovely wife grabbed me by the ear and led me off to the bathroom sink. I love how that turned out!

I had to stare at myself being spanked in the mirror before she lathered up a big bar of ivory soap and worked it into my mouth. She moved that nasty bar of soap back and forth, getting every bit of my lying mouth well soaped. Then with the bar still stuck into my mouth she paddled me even harder, smirking with satisfaction at how sorry she’s just made me for my lie. I can certainly say having had my mouth washed out with soap was an even more effective form of discipline than receiving a badly blistered bottom. Thankfully I am just well behaved to deserve a repeat of this ordeal in the foreseeable future

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The Rule of Blowjobs for Women
“Tease. Spend time. Don’t just start out like a Hoover on overdrive.”

Commercialising Romance or “I bought you this card now where’s my blowjob?”
“If it takes a specific date for your partner to show you he loves you then what do you have?”

Relax
“She smiled up at him, from her vantage point between his knees, and continued what she’d been doing.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Questions…

Editor’s Choice
Hazards of the Biz

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After hours spent learning the editing program, here is my first original F/m spanking video post. I am still not entirely happy with the color balance or sound, but I realize that the original video limits what I can do in post processing. Setting the color to auto-balance in a room with strongly colored gold wallpaper certainly didn’t help this first attempt, but I finally have a video I am willing to post.

For a first attempt I feel it is quite good. Shooting video is rather different from the still photography I am used to, and I have always been behind the camera before. Directing, setting up the camcorder and still camera, and being the sore bottomed side of the talent- it takes some getting used to. Please let me know what you think!

Look for the full 5 minute 640×480 video for sale soon in my upcoming clips4sale store. I hope to have it launched before the end of the month, otherwise Twilight has promised me a good hiding.

Edit: It’s here! Download the full 5 minute 54mb video in our Well Spanked Man Store

I’ve just noticed that its been a little too long since I blogged some original content. This is not for lack of trying, but rather due to my lack of experience editting video. These are some stills from a mini-shoot Twilight and I did, I am still trying to fix the wacked out color balance on the video… I learned that “auto color balance” is not the correct choice.

The premise of the video, which will be up soon I promise, is that I failed to refill the car tank and my wife missed her knitting night because of it. Of course, what was she to do but take it out on my poor behind? It was a fun shoot and my bottom ended up tender for the rest of the day.

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An Erotic Story…Samson and Delilah
“Now how exactly does one go about seducing a preacher?”

A Kiss
“Then, the lulling low roar of your voice falls away and we are both leaning forward, transfixed.”

Clif & Lydia Drop Over The Edge
“She nervously giggled and lowered her lashes. ”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
The Secret of Playboy Legs

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The Carnival of Feminists 53: Call for submissions

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Being of good use
Blow Me
Catalina loves (Unusual) Fetishes
Handball As A Contact Sport
Mz Berlin And Wired Pussy In Conspiracy Bigger Than Da Vinci Code (Bondage, Shibari, Violet Wand)
Naughty Request
Personal Growth Through BDSM
Pumped Up
Professional Submissive
Saturday night…
Thirty-Eight Caliber Nipples

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For those who do not know, capzasin cream is an arthritis relief medicine made with the active ingredient in hot peppers. This stuff is hot, and getting in on your skin can burn.

Some spankos, Twilight and I included, use this stuff for spanking purposes. I occasionally see this referenced on other blogs and on forums. Spankings hurt and “the cream” makes them hurt even more and leaves a sore and burning bottom for up to a couple of hours. It is not a normal part of the discipline repertoire, rather its something special for occasions when a good spanking is just not enough to teach the lesson.

I was surprised to read a bad report on the use of capzasin cream for spankings recently at Span Co.  It seems he did not like the effects at all, which I suppose is the point;

Now, I am not easily impressed but what happened next is difficult to describe. I was so uncomfortable that I could not stand still. This is real discomfort. After about twenty minutes of dancing around waiting for the pain to subside I dashed into the shower and turned the cold water on my ass.

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If it is true that the wise learn from other’s mistakes, please be wise and DO NOT DO IT.

Dancing around in the discomfort of a continuously burning ass is the whole point of using the cream. It worked great, though,yes it does make you learn from your mistakes.

As a side note, if for some reason you need to remove it, water just makes it worse. It is oily, and if you try you can remove it in the shower to some extent using dish detergent. Lotioning afterwards would also help. I recommend keeping it away from the anus and genitals, insertion could possibly cause a medical emergency.

When I get “the cream” usually it is part of a bath brush spanking. A small line is applied to each well reddened cheek of my bottom, then the cream is rubbed completely in with the flat part of the brush. Be sure it is rubbed in completely, it can splatter and one time it got in Twilight’s eye (ouch!). Then I am soundly spanked on top of the cream. The pain is quite intense, and over the next couple of hours my butt is randomly pinched by my wife who enquires, “Oh, does your poor bottom still burn?”. Sometimes I have to sit with my tanned and creamed butt on a wooden or leather seat, this is especially bad and can be more painful (and for much longer!) than the original spanking.